Keep Yourself And Your Family Together With Al-Quran
One day in 1957 at a meeting in London, initiated by the local police, I asked to speak. After completion of the lecture, a champion in the audience expressed a question, "Should not formed a sort of committee of the State to address the moral crisis that has very rage right now?"
So I answered that I agree with the idea that. I continue my consent it with a more concrete proposal, namely that all citizens of Indonesia became a member of the committee at the same time take care of each member is required, do not have a lot of people, just everyone who took care of one person, ie himself. "(Prof. Dr. . Hamka, ghirah; Jealous Because God)
The above article is an excerpt from a book entitled ghirah work of one of the Muslim scholars belonging to Indonesia, that Buya Hamka. We certainly know who he is, gait and his works. Even though he is dead, but the papers he is still a reference in various disciplines.
In excerpts of the above sentence, Buya Hamka want to give a message that the problems that exist in society, especially the sheer moral crisis was not caused by external factors. The problem that is in us, not simply because the elements outside of us. However, it also comes from ourselves. The existing problems in the family, for example, is not simply due to the cause from the outside, but it could be actually caused from within the family. Thus, the important message is that ourselves and our families is none other than our own responsibility. Responsibility to be personal and family well.
Keep Yourself
For every Muslim, what he is doing in the world whether it's good or bad deeds. So, he also would get a reward from Allah Ta'ala. A man's actions are not imposed on others, the intention is that every individual is responsible for his actions. Other people do not get the reward or sins of the actions of others, except what has been mentioned in the hadeeth like righteous children's prayer, perpetual charity and useful knowledge.
In this case, Allah ta'ala says in many verses in the Quran include:
"............ And the one who sins will not bear the sins of others ........." (TQS. Al-An'am: 164)
"Every self-responsible for what he had done." (TQS. Al-Muddatstsir: 38)
Therefore, the form of guard yourself is to pay attention to exactly what we do. Uncaused, what is planted with pebuatan us, will be harvested with a fair reward from Allah Ta'ala. Do not let every second that passed in life is sinful act. And how can we know the deeds which Allah Ta'ala is pleased to be reciprocated reward, and deeds which Allah Ta'ala angry for so it will be reciprocated sin is with us continue to learn, especially the Islamic sciences. Never get tired of learning, because the science of Islam very much. Then amalkan, amalkan and amalkan.
Keeping The Family
In family matters, Allah Ta'ala convey the word of His that is no one's responsibility to his family. Allah ta'ala says:
"O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is men and stones; guardian angels of the rough, hard, and do not disobey Allah in what he commanded them and always do what they're told. "(TQS. At-Tahrim: 6)
In a commentary Jalalain say that keep yourself and your family is by deed obey Allah Ta'ala (bil 'amali' alaa thaa'atiLLah). More detail, Imam Ash-Syaukani explained in Fath al-Qadir, that keep yourself is to do what they're told and leave what is forbidden (bi maa fi'li amarakum BIH, wa maa tarki nahaakum 'anhu).
Imam Ash-Syaukani continue, that keeping the family is by having them (the family) to be obedient to Allah Ta'ala and forbid them not committing to Allah Ta'ala (bi bi amrihim thaa'atiLLah, nahyihim wa 'alaa ma'aashiyyahi).
Prophet Muhammad shalallahu'alaihi wa sallama also expressed on the obligation and importance of one's attention to his family, especially his children. Shalallahu'alaihi wa sallama Prophet Muhammad said:
"Every child born in a state of nature, then both his parents who make the Jews, Christians can or Zoroastrian." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim)
Keeping Together The Koran
No doubt, that we now live in middle-era of globalization and technological advances. Where not only the positive effects gained, but just a lot of negativity that plague our society. Small children toddler age is closer to the gadget than even their parents. Children age kindergarten and elementary addicted to smartphones. Teenagers and adults would have a more complex problem.
We take the example by taking the old data. So by looking at old data, we can compare the current conditions. If the condition gets better, or even numbers greater problem.
In 2010, in Surabaya teenage single women who are not virgins 54%, 52% Medan, Bandung 47%, 37% Yogyakarta (BKKBN). In Jadebotabek survey of 100 teenagers, 51 claimed was not a virgin anymore.
Child Protection Commission conducted a survey of 4,500 teenagers in 12 major cities in Indonesia results found 62.7% of teens admitted that he had never had sex, 93% of adolescents ever kissed, 21% have had abortions. (Kompas.com, 9/5/2010)
Indonesia abortion rate ranges from 2 to 2.6 million cases per year. Or 43 abortions per 100 pregnancies. 30% of them committed by teenagers aged 15-24. (Faculty of Medicine UII Yogyakarta, dr. Point Kuntari MPH). (Inilah.com)
It is estimated that approximately 25% of the 239 women (59) PSK / Prostitutes in the city of Sukabumi comes from teenagers who caused the desire to live mewah.Pada in 2011 declared HIV causes AIDS free sex 76.3%, 16.3% syringes. Public Relations Jakarta Police Commissioner Pol Baharudin Djafar said 39 riot cases since September 2011.
What is the condition now? Hopefully, the numbers problem continues gradually diminished and even disappeared. Aamiin.
However, the fact is we still feel many problems in society, and sometimes affects our family environment.
Although there are still many problems whack, that does not mean there is no solution and anticipation. At least, one solution and anticipation of the many solutions and anticipation that there is to be a private and family KORANIC. This is one very simple way besides penidikan faith, morals and more in our homes.
No doubt, that one of the facts now, children, father and mother more lingering interact with gadgets than the Koran. Never memorize, to read the Koran every day routine may rarely be found in the families of Muslims today.
So, not too late to get it started. From the beginning, starting now open Mushaf Al-Quran, who had been "the exhibits" in the house. Begin to interact with the Koran, read, recite, mentadabburi, practice and mendakwahkannya.
Educate our children read the Koran correctly and well. And it is allowed to make our young generation, into penghafal (guard) Al-Quran. So when meraka continuing higher education, they have a stock of the Koran. And their careers later, they are a doctor who has memorized the Koran, a professor who memorized the Quran, a businessman memorized the Quran, an official memorized the Quran and others. Thank God, in God Syaa more days, more and more individuals and families who become Quranic generation.
Lastly, as a motivation and an afterthought for us all, also for families. A hadith from Buraidah Al-Aslami, he said that he heard the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam said. "On the Day of Judgement, the Qur'an will meet penghafalnya when penghafal it out of his grave. Al-Quran will manifest a person and he asked penghafalnya, "Do you know me?" Memorizers had replied, "I do not know you." The Quran says, "I was your pal, Al-Quran that makes you thirsty in the middle of a hot day and makes you not sleep at night. Indeed, every trader will profit on the back of the merchandise and you this day behind all merchandise. Then penghafal Quran was given the power in his right hand and given immortality in his left hand, and on her head a crown fitted mighty. Both parents being given two more nice new clothes that cost can not be paid by the inhabitants of the whole world. Both parents were then asked, "Why would we be dressed like this?" And then answered, "Because your son memorized the Quran." Then the Quran memorizers had instructed, "Read it and went up to levels of heaven and room- his room. "(HR. Ahmad)