Islamic
Guidance In Sex Education
Today
many people are talking about the existence of 'sex education' (or sex
education) in our lives. Maybe it's because swept away the desire of the
western people to pay attention to this issue and perhaps also because we are
now merasakanan need to think about it, especially after seeing how the
increase in lifestyle-free youth, our youth and the 'subjects' youth so that
pretty much casualties.
Indeed,
in the United States in general, people believe that children need to be given
sex education because the number of cases of young women who become pregnant
out of wedlock. Maybe also because of the increasing number of rape cases.
Abortion and the spread of venereal disease that occurs in people.
A
monthly magazine in America 'Reader digest' revealed that in the United States
each year is not less than 200 thousand children are born without a father,
this happens because the lives of the people there did let youth pemudinya mix
freely, as in a variety of parties, they dancing and dancing together till late
at night.
Seeing
reality as it existed among the American people themselves who feel
uncomfortable and sad but helpless on the lives of young men and women they
will bring about the destruction of the nation and the younger generation, the
people that are then encourage the younger generation to the nation and
self-conscious.
The
same scenes were also seen in other European countries. There, the life of a
free society has turned and straddled religion as a way of life that applies,
religion is like a ritual that only apply in places of worship, and our
society, the people of Indonesia are mostly Moslem and still have customs
strong, could it be the same fate with them ?.
If
we are not trying to prevent the influence of the bad influences that come from
outside, it could be the state of this nation will not experience a change in
the direction of mindset and lifestyle that is free without the brick to the
sexual problem.
Especially
now that the world was small due to the technological advances in
communications and transportation. Transmission of information via satellite,
television, internet, newspapers, means of transport, and with the increasing
flow of foreign tourists coming to our country, nation and make our society
more open and integrated with the world civilization.
Change
In Thinking
Society
major cities as the entrance of foreigners and foreign influence is already
showing a change of thought, so there is submitted that the woman be given the
right to an abortion is not for medical reasons, but for social reasons such as
pregnant out of wedlock or others.
The
new functions are played by women as hostesses, steambath, score girl, server bars
and discos, as well as others, also provide ample opportunity to accelerate the
process of destruction of the younger generation, our expectations. And
obviously, that will become a victim of these circumstances are women and
children outside of marriage. Knowingly or not, it is part of a strategy to
destroy the Jewish youth of Islam.
Indeed,
in man there is an element of animal character indulgence and want to do freely
as they wished, but that desire will actually be prevented as long as there are
rules, strict supervision and sanctions are severe.
With
the rules, pengawsan which etat and severe sanctions, God willing Ajab
prevented humans from animal passions urge to do that at will. Besides these
rules can also make human life becomes serene and spirited social and
religious.
Unfortunately,
supervision by humans is still not functioning optimally. There are still many
violations violations that can not be avoided, as a result many people become
big villain, the destroyer of morals crushers joints joints religion, destroyer
of women and the causes of infant babies born out of wedlock. So, is it
possible sex education to stem the symptoms of damage and lewdness?
Not
many bring benefits
The
use of contraceptives, in fact, can not reduce the number of births outside
marriage. Even the birth rate to rise, as happened in the country of
Switzerland, Denmark, and America itself. Apparently, sex education does not
bring much benefit without accompanied by a strong religious education to stem
and stop sexual harassment.
Without
religious education, promiscuity will continue, babies are born without a
father will continue to increase. Because religion that has provided the
perfect guidance including sex life. It is religion that gives strict control
and severe sanctions for violating the rules.
Religion
also has advocated the wrongdoers to repent. For that, let us consider some
religious instruction on sex life, the basic view that faith is the fundamental
basis of sex education in Islam.
Regarding
the role of humans in this life, Allah confirms in his words: "And I did
not create the jinn and mankind except that they may serve-ku". (Surat
adh-Dzariyaat 51:56) and in the Al-Hujurat (49) verse 13, Allah says: "O
mankind! Lo! We created you from a male and a female and made you nations and
bersuku- tribes that ye may know each other-know ... ".
In
order to be an ornament
Indeed,
a sense of love and lust to women, was created by God. It was not intended
sebagau form of release, but God created it in order to be an ornament for man
in his life in the world, his word: "indahpada cite this (view) human ..
(Q.S. Ali Imran 3:14).
Then
God created man to protect and lead the woman, as saying, "men are in
charge of women, because Allah has preferred some of them (men) on sebahagian
another (female) and because they (men) spend out of their property ... ".
(Q.S. An-Nissa '4:34).
Not
only that, God also gives guidance to Paraa men who chose a woman to be a
companion. Allah says: "... then marry women who are good for you
...". (Q.S. An-Nissa '4: 3)
Get
Married
In
real life, Islam also recommends to those who have been able to get married.
And for those who have not been able advisable to refrain, so God gave him the
ability. In a hadith the Prophet Muhammad affirmed: "O youth, whoever of
you have been able to carry out the marriage, then deliver it. Marriage was
more subdued eyes and maintain sex (from promiscuity) ". (HR. Bukhari
Muslim).
Hadith
above can also be concluded that Islam emphasizes to his people for a family,
celibacy is not kept during his life or not marry forever. Because it has been
accusatory nature as human beings.
In
another hadith the Prophet Muhammad also gives a warning: "But I pray,
sleep, fasting, breaking and marrying women. So anyone who does not like my
Sunnah, then he is not from me ". (HR. Bukhari and Muslim).
Islam
is not a religion that is only concerned with affairs archaic god. But Islam
also is a social religion that also regulate the affairs of the world and the
needs of his people. So Islam mensyariatkan marriage. This was to be a
regulator of relationships between men and women. Between husband and wife,
there are rights and obligations of each.
They
both have a responsibility for the happiness of the household. In a sexual
relationship, they are prohibited from turning away from one of them. Sexual
relations outside of both (with others), is called adultery and unlawful.
To
meet this heinous act, God has set the eye as a good stimulant for men willing
female. Also required the woman to cover nakedness. Besides Allah forbid alone
together between men and women are not mahram. Rasulullah SAW said: "let
alone with women. For the sake of my God in His power, if a man being alone
with a woman, certainly syetan infiltrate between the two ". (HR. Thabrani
of Abu Umamah RA).
In
the view of Islam, adultery is categorized greatest sin after shirk to Allah.
It was, as mentioned in the hadith of Ibn Abbas RA, that the prophet SAW said:
"there is no greater sin in the sight of Allah after idolatry, but sin a
man who put his semen into raim (women) were not lawful for him".
Verily,
Allah is All-Knowing and watch over all actions undertaken by His servants.
Anyone who has already done so, then bertaubatlah, Allah accepts repentance of
His servants, because God also Maha-forgiving, Most recipients Repentance His
servants who are truly repent of any sin. Allah says: "Those who do evil
deeds, then repent after that and believe, in fact, your Lord after repentance
coupled with faith it is forgiving, Merciful". (Q.S. Al-A'raaf 7: 153).
These
are among the most perfect of Islamic guidance, we should heed the guidance of
God as the Creator of the All-Knowing and Wise. May God always gives His grace
to us all.